Strap On Dildo buying advice
Strap on dildos are an extremely versatile sex toy. They are used in different situations; here are some of them:
Heterosexual use 1
Many heterosexuals enjoy using strap on dildos as they offer a new avenue and exciting avenue of love making. There are different scenarios that this can be enjoyed. Men can use a strap on dildo to give his lady double penetration. Taking her from behind, his able to use his penis to give her anal penetration while the strap on to give her vaginal penetration. Once the rhythm is mastered you can then use one hand to stimulate her clitoris giving her optimum pleasure. Double penetration might take some practice and experimentation to get the right rhythm and coordination between of using the harness, but persevere , it is worth the practise.
Heterosexual use 2
Strap-ons allow women to give men anal penetration. This is great for many couples where the man enjoys stimulation on the prostate gland. The common misconception with anal penetration is that anal penetration is for gay people to enjoy, however this is a not true. The area around the butt has many nerve endings and when stimulated can give an extreme amount of pleasure. Women can also enjoy the power associated with wearing a strap-on dildo. Not only the power they might feel wearing a strap-on dildo, but also giving their partner pleasure in a different way. Giving this penetration to the partner from behind can also give them a taste for what the man feels when he takes her from behind. This can be a liberating experience for her as she is able to pleasure her man and unlike in a usual rear-entry position, he is unable to see her, and she is in control. It is for this reason as well that men like being taken from behind from their woman. The man can really like being at the whim of their woman and have her control and dominating the pleasure.
Lesbian
Strap ons are also popular with lesbian couples as it allows them to experience penetration in a relationship. While this can be received with normal dildos, using a strap-on gives a different sensation and they are great for those who like to replicate the missionary position. Some women even like to suck on the strap on when acting out particular scenes or experimenting with the toy.
Sexual Problems
For men who have problems reaching and sustaining erection, then strap on dildos are a good toy to use so your partner still achieves an orgasm. Or if you suffer from premature ejaculation, then you're able to have the strap on nearby so you can continue having sex with your partner until they orgasm.
Advice
If it the first time you are using a strap-on dildo in a heterosexual couple there are some things to bear in mind. The lady may not be used to anal penetration, let alone double penetration, so it is important to take things slowly. Working into a rhythm might be harder than it looks so take your time and ease into it. If the man is a first time user for strap ons then he too will need to adjust to the feeling of using a strap on. It is often a good idea to try things out on their own first. Try just using the strap on dildo in the vagina and then try using it in the anus before embarking on double penetration. It's very important to clean it before switching orephises. This is extremely important as bacteria is easily spread from the anus to vagina so it is very important to keep some anti-bacterial toy cleaner close by if you intend of experimenting with our strap-on dildo.
Once you've experimented try just easing your way into double penetration. It might be harder than it looks trying for coordinate both the penis and the dildo and it make takes some time to work into a routine. It's likely to take some to get into a proper motion.